As we enter into married life, we tend to be friends with other married couples and eventually couples with kids. Slowly as life progresses, you are surrounded by a lot many friends with kids and as and when you start spending time with them, you start to feel comfortable with kids and kind of start to like them.
But off course, those kids around are definitely not the reason why I and my husband started to think for a baby. Initially we were holding the thought of having a baby as it's a big responsibility and your life after baby is never going to be the same, you can not have unplanned trips, late nights parties/movies and a lot more any sooner after the child birth or may be never.
We always knew we wanted a baby but when was the question.
As per my experience and reading, you can never know the perfect time to have a baby and the longer you take to decide on this, the more fertility issues you are going to face as we are not getting any younger with time. So, my advice on this, it's good to have babies in your late 20's or at least no later than 35.
Both of us are in our late 20's and financially stable and at least we started to discuss on when should we have our baby.
Close to 11/2 years of our marriage, a thought for having those tiny palms and feet in our arms triggered us with an idea for having a baby. Just beginning to think of it, gave us a sense of happiness.
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